In Yoruba culture, marriage is not just a union between two individuals—it is the coming together of two families. The ceremony begins with an official introduction of the bride's and groom's families, where they each dance in with the closest family and friends, symbolizing the joining of their lineages and establishing a foundation of respect and unity.
Our wedding celebrates the rich heritage of Yoruba traditions. Below are some of the key rites and moments that will take place during our ceremony. We hope this gives you a glimpse into the beauty and depth of our culture!
The wedding reception is a joyous celebration where family and friends gather to honour the newlyweds. The event typically includes a grand entrance, heartfelt toasts, a delicious meal, music, and dancing. Guests share in the couple’s happiness through traditions like the first dance, cake cutting
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Reading of the Proposal Letter
The groom’s family presents a formal proposal letter, eloquently written on a stylish engraved slate, with expressions of their son’s love and intention to marry the bride.
Reading of the Acceptance Letter
The bride’s family responds with an acceptance letter, signifying their blessings and approval of the union.
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This is a deeply poetic and celebratory moment where the families’ origins and achievements are praised. The Oríkì chant is a traditional Yoruba form of verbal art that highlights lineage and accomplishments, setting a joyful and reverent tone for the ceremony.
As in the case of the bride who is from Offa kwara state, “Ìyèrù Òkìn” symbolizes prestige, leadership, and beauty, likening Offa to the Òkìn, the royal peacock, known as the king of birds in Yoruba tradition.
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The Alaga Iduro (the Master of Ceremony for the groom’s family) and Alaga Ijoko (the representative for the bride’s family) guide the event. These lively representatives ensure the ceremony flows smoothly with humour, cultural wisdom, and negotiation skills, adding an engaging dynamic to the proceedings.
